People should doubt you

When your goals are huge, most people won’t understand. They might call your dreams unrealistic or question your ambition. That’s normal—welcome it with open arms. Big visions will always stretch beyond what most people can imagine. Instead of questioning yourself, let their doubt thrust you forward. Let…

Act fast, act often

Act fast on your ideas to supercharge confidence. Explore how bridging the intention–behaviour gap builds small wins and accelerates growth.…

Embody both Neo and Trinity

Remember in The Matrix how Neo only tapped into his full power after Trinity believed in him? That moment might seem like pure movie magic, but it reflects something real about human connection. In every meaningful relationship, we each get to play both roles—sometimes we’re Neo, discovering our…

You are the prize

Most people chase validation, hoping to be chosen. But the most magnetic individuals don’t wait to be picked—they understand their own worth and decide who belongs in their lives. This mindset isn’t reserved for a select few. It’s accessible to anyone willing to step into self-respect…

Be the light

Optimism has an incredible way of rippling out into the world, shaping how others feel and act. Psychologists call this “emotional contagion”—the process by which our emotions, attitudes, and behaviours can subtly influence everyone around us. Choosing to exude hope isn’t about denying life’s difficulties. Instead, it’…

Rejection is a modifiable statistic

Rejection in dating can feel like a personal verdict. But a “no” isn’t a seal on your fate. By treating rejection as a modifiable statistic, you shift from “I’m not good enough” to “What can I adjust next time?” Consider the following two concepts. Self-efficacy (from psychologist Albert…

Perceive confidence as positive predictive value

Confidence can be meaningfully related to positive predictive value (PPV) in the sense that both concepts reflect the accuracy of a belief or decision-making process. Defining Positive Predictive Value (PPV) In statistics and diagnostics, PPV refers to the probability that a positive test result is actually correct. It is given…

5 lessons on resilience from founders

In November, I hosted my second Super Founder event with nearly 20 founders on the theme of resilience. Here are some of the lessons shared: 1. The path less taken is intimidating. But when your purpose leads the way, even the scariest road feels navigable. 2. Big life changes can…